Yestesday i was going to one of my friend's wedding at Traders Hotel. i'm quite suprised because he married with the one he love eventhough both of them got different culture but what ever is it, Congratulation to him. Seriously i'm quite suprised. But the only thing that i'm regret was on the big picture there was a barrier between them. What i mean is not the couple but the family members ya la.. malay culture and also the indian culture.. i dont how to say it.. but for me it's ok as a start of the meeting point of this culture. Hopefully he's not shock. i pray for him.
Marriage is an instituation where people gain trust each other, love each other, caring each other and many others that i can't think right now..haha.. and the important thing it's not just only the S** words..hehe..
For those not married yet including me..hehe.. Find happiness for yourself..don't put a gap (culture) as a reason.. BUT there's parents that still do the force married in order to fullfill their desire especially for their daughter. It's ok if their daughter accept it but she won't accept it..
Think about it..
-------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Personally i prefer an age gap between 5 to 6 years as the man (hopefully) will be matured enough to handle the relationship and the women will be still in a suitable age to be pamper and receive the proper attension as deserve.
In Asia culture age is the one of the consideration in a marriage, usually the wife (first wife as reference) is either same age as of a few younger couple compare to husband. Now days age gap is no more big issue and people are open minded that elderly female with a younger male is consider tolarable in many society.
With medical advancement and healthier life style, many do not look at their age and it is hard to gauge a person age by their appearance and with modern education and equality women no long subject to external elements for marriage but more in to compatibility.
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